I have used dildos before and whether I can get off from them or not depends on my mood. I have to be really horny to get off with a piece of plastic...it helps if it vibrates. Then it just can't be helped. But the vision and idea of a dildo? Eh, I can take it or leave it. It can be great, when used well. They are not my favourite sex toy though. Like mixedmedia, I prefer the real thing, any day.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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