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Originally Posted by RobZero
yeah i think thats it....whenever I think of them...idk why..i get this nauseating feeling. I guess this will just take time and not think about them....cause like you guys said....shes with me instead of him
well I think I start to be clingy whenever I think about her and her ex....i can tell shes a little bit annoyed when I get clingy...like its where i start to say i love you a million times while she gets annoyed and just shakes her head...i know she loves me but she prolly gets annoyed when I get clingy. I dont really want to address it to her...cause what if shes not seeing it? then she will be looking for me being clingy. So maybe being more confident would help not me being clingy...
also, dont really want to tell her all this drama...she hates drama...so I feel like if i work out my insecurities and troublesomes about her ex then I could be a better man. Cause she says shes over him...he made her life a shit while they were dating...so I dont really want to bring up her ex over and over. Yeah, sometimes I feel like a rebound...but I think thats just the insecurity thinking and I got to get over that.
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She does not like super clingy so stop it, or move on, relationship is about compromise, and small stuff like that kill one. Anyone you ever date will have a history look in the mirror, that is who the person is with now, so stop worrying about the past or she will not be with you longer. You know she hates drama so why are you invading her privacy why are you making issues out of something where there is none.
If you can not do that, then consider for yourself and for her to move on since you are sabotaging your relationship.