It appears to me that you're all discriminating between behaviors that offend you and behaviors that don't. I don't think that there's a difference between having good manners and being polite; the difference exists because you see some manners (e.g. elbows on the table) as silly, archaic rules, and other manners (e.g. talking loudly) as indicating civility and respect. This is all about which manners you think are important. Or, to put it more impersonally, which manners should be followed and which should not.
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And you believe Bush and the liberals and divorced parents and gays and blacks and the Christian right and fossil fuels and Xbox are all to blame, meanwhile you yourselves create an ad where your kid hits you in the head with a baseball and you don't understand the message that the problem is you.
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