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She wasn't up front because she did not want you to think badly of her. Their relationship was for 3 years, it is not as though she was picking random guys from the bar all the time. It doesn't mean anything, in fact I think that it really is not an issue that should be openly discussed for the most part. I seriously hesitate when asked by a partner in answering how many partners that I have had. It is not that I feel it is an extreme figure at all. The issue is that so many men are quick to label a female as a slut/whore etc without factoring in that these relationships were longterm. Each relationship is different, each partnership is like a snowflake. Sex even with the same person is(or at least should be) unique in some way each time.
Look at it this way, she is with you now. You hold her for a reason, you provide to her something that makes her want to be with you and not him.
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