I go wih inviting them along to a club or watching a show together. Some people are not all that comfortable with sexuality and feel guilt over things such as that. Feeling it is wrong to have sexual thoughts or find enjoyment in ways that doesn't involve their partner. Also many people feel a real wall between religion and sexuality, strong religious upbringing conflicting with sexual desire. I personally think there could be no better person to watch a porn flick than my partner, but that is just me.
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