I think the trouble with a SO's exes can often be an extension of trust issues. I'm sure most people would like to think, I trust my SO, but it's his/her ex I don't trust!, but really unless you're worried about physical or emotional attacks from the individual, for which there are other options, it might be that you're still learning to trust your SO. There's not necessarily anything wrong with that, I mean you can't trust someone you just met, but if you've been together a while and you still don't trust them then you might want to figure out if that's either you being paranoid or them not actually being trustworthy.
Best of luck.
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