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I have been having this issue in my relationship with my gf lately, as well (porn only). I almost feel like it is somewhat of a cop-out to just say "well guys just need porn." Maybe I'm the only guy on here that thinks this, but is it okay to continue to engage ethically questionable behavior knowing that a significant other is bothered by it? I'm not making an ethical judgement about porn ( I watch as much as anyone), I'm just saying that it's not exactly wholesome behavior. She is not the type that wants me to change and would never ask me not to look at porn anymore, but she just says that she can't understand it and that it does sort of bother her.
Basically, I am asking if I am the only guy on here who would be willing to give it up (or at least try to) for the sake of someone that I care about? Why do we just accept the notion that guys "need porn"? It's great, but do we need it even if it hurts an otherwise good relationship?
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k thx.
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