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Originally Posted by ratbastid
Guys do this "hanging around and being available and being a nice guy and hoping maybe someday she'll trip and accidentally fall onto my cock" thing.
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So, so true. Nicely said. Tempting to quote you in my signature, actually...
(And yeah, girls do that, too--that was me in high school, hoping a guy would accidentally fall into me, lol.)
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Originally Posted by lotsofmagnets
so yeah, being direct, even in a joking way can be a help....
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Definitely. That's one of the biggest reasons ktspktsp got my attention... he was fucking hilarious, and bold, in his humor. He stood out to me as someone who was so into me, he just couldn't be bothered to play games or overthink the situations. And I LOVED that.
Btw--I mean, seriously... people have been getting to know each other and hooking up for tens of thousands of years now, 99.99% of that time without the internet to help them out. Really, just go with the natural flow of things and don't look for an easy way out. That's the whole point, isn't it?
Becoming intimate with someone takes effort--this isn't a Google search, and it never should be.