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Originally Posted by radioguy
dude, if she was hot...who cares!!! use the remembrance of the body, not the face and other stuff, to get off...cause you'll never have her again. at least, that's what i did!
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Honestly, I took a tack similar to radioguy with my ex. Unfortunately, I couldn't get her out of my head either...and she pulled a nasty trick on me just before she broke it off. She sent me rather suggestive pictures of her (which I begged her to take years before but she refused) and then proceeded to break up with me 30 minutes later. Eventually, every sexual thought I had was about her. I simply used those thoughts to get off and the promptly forgot about them. She became a means to an end. I've even locked away the pictures (physically!) so I can't be tempted, even though I almost always am.
It got easier as time went on, though. I found other women to fantasize about and i discovered some new fetishes in the process.
Halx is right, of course. Time will heal this wound.