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Originally Posted by Halx
I always figured that telling someone how to make you come could be classified under "dirty talk" and is thus foreplay.
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I think so too. It definitely does not need to come out as though you are handing them the instruction manual or anything. I personally would be immediately turned on to hear my lover whisper in the morning, oh I loved it so much when you did ____. And frankly, for my lover to take my hand and guide me, or whatever body part for that matter. I think it is hot. I think some people need loosen up a little and stop worrying so much about the other thinking they are a dirty tramp or something and just have fun. It is all about pleasure, why limit pleasure by not opening up? The touchy part is more in saying, I don't care for something so much. Then again, if my partner makes it obvious that he/she/they enjoy something greatly.. that is a turn-on it itself so it would not matter so much.