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So when we feel feminine, does it mean we feel more ideal in other peoples' eyes (or even our own)?
So what do you think makes you feel feminine, or not?
Is this all just social conditioning?
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Yes, I suspect that femininity is social conditioning too and i dont think it is necessarily static. I think it does mean something more ideal, probably in our own eyes, but still what makes me feel feminine is that conditioning by my partner. Tpop is excellent at this so i feel feminine most all the time, and I like it very much. Its new for me as Ive spent most of my life in different circumstances where femininity was not valued so its easy to contrast. Its a relief, almost like coming home. I feel natural and its easier to breathe. Who knew?!