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Originally Posted by Samtallica
How can I be expected to get her off when she can't even get herself off with a vibrator?
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Whoa!! Careful there. How do you go from this to that? Just so ya know, I enjoy my vibrator. But it's oh-so-much better (and much faster) when my guy uses it on me.
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She gets frustrated because she's used to being with someone that knows what they're doing and I get frustrated because I feel like I can't satisfy her.
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Could this be your issue? How do you know she's used to being with someone that knows better than you? Maybe no one's ever communicated and she doesn't even know. Has she told you that anyone else is better than you? Maybe she's afraid to tell you because she doesn't think you'd be receptive to her response(s). This is your opportunity to learn
together. Don't pass the buck.
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I guess the communication problem is on her end, not mine.
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Ahem. Communication is a two-way proposition. If it's her problem, it's yours.
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It kind of kills the mood when you start asking too many specific questions.
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Ask them at the right time and the right way.
Does this feel good? How about when I do this? You can get her to open up by indicating what feels good to you.
Oooh babe I love when you do it like this. You get the idea.