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I have been married for almost 14 years, and we still cannot read minds. If she is having trouble saying exactly what she wants, try a different tactic. Try different things, different levels of pressure, different directions, different strokes so to speak. Just ask 'this one...or this one?' If she chooses A over B, try A and C and ask again. (kind of like what an eye doctor does with lenses)
Just a thought...if you have been in a relationship for a year and she still isn't communicating, it is possible she didn't communicate well with her previous partners either. They might not have been any more 'attuned' to her than you think you are.
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