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I must agree with Cynthetig, communication is the likely the answer here. I know from previous unsatisfying sexual relationships, people are not mind readers., even married/engaged people. I find one of the best parts of my relationship now is the open communication I have with my SO on all topics, sex included. We enjoy the same things (I know because we discuss), plan and talk about what we want, when we want it. I really encourage you to adopt open communication regarding likes/dislikes/how/when/planning. It also makes for very fun conversation and awesome foreplay, trust me.
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