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picking up on my fiancee's needs
OK, so I was kind of a late bloomer... my fiancee has at least 5 years more experience than me. Sometimes I feel like our sex life is a little lacking because of this. A lot of times I feel like we're on two completely different levels sexually. While we seem to be into a lot of the same things, we seem to want them at different times.
Anyway, the obvious answer is just getting to know her better, but we've been with each other for over a year and I still can't seem to pick up on what she wants and when she wants it. I feel like we match so perfectly in every other way and I would love to be able to satisfy her on a more regular basis.
Can anyone suggest a book or something that would give me some pointers on how to be more attune to her sexually? Maybe even just something to spice things up and return some of the intensity to our encounters. Basically it seems like we're in a rut and we can't find a way out. Any help out be greatly appreciated.
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-Sam
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