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Originally Posted by ratbastid
Okay, but here's the situation. You're out somewhere. You see the "right girl". You get all excited, because, well, there she is, the "right girl". ...
If, however, you're out there honing your chops and developing your confidence by approaching anything that walks without any particular regard to the outcome with any particular woman or even on any particular night, THEN you're playing the right game.
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You know, it never entered my mind that if a guy asks me out, he might not actually care about meeting me. That he might just be honing his chops, or practicing, for when he meets 'ms right.' Now that it has entered my mind, I am glad I am married.
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Originally Posted by Willravel
The worst thing that can happen is she gets scared and pulls a gun.
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Now you're scaring him. But it was funny.
Roxxor: Just relax. If she is making strong eye contact and smiling, take that as a 'hello' and go from there, if you are actually interested in meeting her. (says the shy kid) If you are in a mall, why not ask her if she wants to go get a coffee or such, at a place that is actually in the mall. I promise you, most of us don't bite unless you ask us to.