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Originally Posted by dirtyrascal7
You need to focus on things that are within your control. Obviously, it's not within your control whether this other guy cheats on his wife or not. And as much as you might wish they were, your wife's actions and feelings aren't within your control, either.
What you CAN control... is you. You've mentioned a number of things that you've done recently that are out of character. Well, if those things become a habit, are they really out of character anymore or have they become part of your character? I think you need to sit down and make a list of the values and principles that you'd like to live by, and a list of things you've done lately that violate those values. And then never do them again. Period.
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Bang! That's the advice you were generally looking for. The stuff that is out of your control - nothing you can do about it unless you're planning on going postal.
You should focus on what you can control - you own way of living, your values, etc.