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Originally Posted by dirtyrascal7
Make a goal to introduce yourself to one new girl each day. You don't need any special line or plan... just smile, say "hi", and go from there.
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That goal would be extremely, extremely difficult as go straight to work at 9AM to 6PM where I don't see a female that is under 45 about 97% of the time, and go home straight after to do homework.
But, I can try to make a goal to do it once or twice a week, or on special occasions. For example, I have to go to the main college campus to take both of my finals Wednesday, so I have the opportunity then. And a concert on Friday, I can try.
I just gotta get it out of my head not to think that saying "hi" to a random girl isn't creepy and weird, haha.
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Originally Posted by MSD
We're going to try a little exercise for you; I want you to read this, say an answer to the question out loud within 5 seconds, and post whatever it was that you said. I put it in a spoiler tag because I don't want you to read it ahead of time and have time to think. If you blank out or can't think of anything, don't be afraid to say so.
Spoiler: I'm being wingman for you at a bar, or party, or wherever we are trying to meet people. I see a girl I know from somewhere, introduce you to her, and she asks you, "Why did MSD tell me I should get to know you?"
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The first thing that came to my mind was, "Cause I'm awesome". From what I've told you about me, that probably doesn't sound like something I'd say, but in reality I would, because other than my girl problems I really like who I am and where I'm at in life. It's just "love" that is a huge part of my life that I feel I'm missing out on. And also, I'd say that because you were there, of course. By that I mean, when I used to hang with my friends and they introduced me to their female friends, I would introduce myself and say something funny (or weird, in their eyes) and I wouldn't care because I knew that if she didn't like it, my friend(s) would laugh because I know his sense of humor. But I don't have any friends here, so I never really thought I could do that going solo.
Anywho, thank you all for the replies, some very powerful stuff in there. As said in another post, sometimes I feel like I'm the only person in this situation, but I guess I'm not and other people have succeeded, so maybe it's my turn to be one of them too.