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Originally Posted by ironman
When I was starting law school I used to work with this guy that would come every monday with a different story of how he had scored a girl and take her home. He was very good looking, and always th
ought that was the reason he scored so much so often, that I thought 'till the first time I ever hang out with him a saturday night. The guy was on fire, he would talk and joke with every woman at the bar, it didn't matter whether they were beautiful or bat-ugly (ugly girls do have beautiful friends he used to say) and surprisingly (at least for me at the time) he got rejected time after time after time, even by girls that were ugly by the kindest standards, but it didn't matter to him, he was on a mission and he wouldn't quit till he got what he was after, and he did.
Later he explained me that every Monday he would told us about that one girl out of hundred that had accepted him, but never told us about all the rejection. That night changed my mind for ever, once you accept that you'll be rejected, no matter who you are are who you think you are, then you are ready to score big with women.
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Again, with the clichés but that is life in a nutshell.
It seems to me Mirth that you just aren't living life, and since you're not, you're doing what seems natural; basing what your life should be on what others do and have. But with others you get those half truths; you end up thinking ridiculous things like "nice guys finish last" and believing it (totally untrue; girls who are douches are the ones who like douches).
Life is always going to kick you dude, nothing just happens, and if it does then it's a blessing, not an everyday occurrence. I get women; amazing women. I date way out of my "league" because I realize there is no league; just people.
My whole life has been me getting kicked until I can stand up and get what I want; everyone's life is that. Just get up and get what you want man.