i'd have to say that if there's any way you can fit your ethics into the "sooner than later" box, the better off you'll be. regardless of what you believe, the dynamics of a healthy relationship begin in the bedroom and your chemistry together there. you need to know how you fit together that way as much as you need to know how you both handle a big argument between the two of you and how you both handle the little things about living together that are tough.... do ALL that before marriage, so you don't get stuck from being ignorant going in.
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-my phobia drowned while i was gettin down.
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