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We have a joint account, he takes care of paying the bills, I take care of balancing the check book. This way we both know what is going on. He knows more than I do, so when I want to purchase something I usually ask if it's ok to debit or use the credit card instead. I always feel guilty for buying frivolous things for myself, and end up asking him if it's ok. He never says no. He even asks me if it's ok to buy new softball bats, and other things. We never hid any purchases from each other, big or small. I guess we do have some amount of trust in our relationship (I will have to remember that more often.)
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