Originally Posted by Mirth

Thank you everyone for reading my long post. I've read all of your replies so far.

I've been contemplating on going to the gym, but I feel that I'm usually too exhausted after work -- which is very labor intensive -- and just like to relax or chill at my brother's house after work. Maybe I will rethink that and give it a shot.

But yes, confidence is my biggest weakness, but in a way it's not. I'm the type of person that once I open up, I'm very funny, caring, and would give the shirt off of my back to help my friends or family. So, I guess I really have to work on opening up to women, and people in general, promptly.

With that said, I know of the option to take the cocky/dickhead route towards women, but, I'm not sure that's for me because I want a woman to want me for my niceness and caring personality, not a woman who wants me because I was a dickhead to her for a few minutes and then gets bored of me quickly afterwards. But then again, "nice guys finish last", right? So, I'm a little bit confused how to act towards women, aside from acting confident.