Kate Jack, You've posted quite a few threads asking different things and I'm wondering are these hypothetical or real situations?
To the question, Sometimes you don't know how good your friends are until the relationship is tested. I like to avoid other peoples problems but seeing how my friends act toward other people really make me consider my relationship with them. People are also very unlikely to listen to bad things about their friends. I had a "friend" and was told time and time again they were going to burn me and I just didn't listen but they day they did decide to ruin the friendship I remembered everyone warning me about them. I'm sure it won't be long until your friend gets burned by the same person and realized they should have listened to you. Until then, all you can really do it avoid making yourself look worse than the other person.
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