"I private messaged her on myspace telling her how I felt about her, and asked her if there was ever a time that she liked me"
no no NO! Don't ever do that. Screw her she lost her chance with YOU and thats the mentality you have to have. Try going to the gym and working out or running, it's not just to look better but to feel better about how you look. You say you don't have an attractive face? fuck that i've seen ugly ass mother fuckers get hot chicks. Girl don't care about how you look they can pick up on how confident you are and you HAVE to be and act confident. You're what girls are going after and that's how you have to act. It's hard to do at first (especially if you're not a drinker... acting like a cocky, confident asshole is easy when you're drunk) but you have to practice it on girls. Don't be afraid of rejection... you'll never get better at talking with girls if you don't get rejected left and right. I got over rejection but it took a while. Let's say im at the school library and talk to a few girls. Who gives a fuck if I'm "rejected" it's THEIR loss, got it? The more girls you talk to the more chances are you'll meet a girl who connects with you. About all I have to say about that...
go buy and read The Game by Neil Strauss. its a good read and will teach you about the pick up artist. sounds cheesy but it actually works most of the time. check this out too
Mystery Method - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
read all about that shit online there are a lot of websites for it. if you have any other questions send me a pm