Friend maintains a relationship with someone who hurt you...
If your friend maintained a pleasant relationship with someone who did things to hurt you (gossip, false accusations) would it bother you?
Would you be able to believe that you were truly close friends?
If they didn't do anything to my friend, well.. I wouldn't be real happy about it, but whatever. It might just be that me and the offending friend had some personality issues that we couldn't work and the offending friend was a dickwad about it. Who the hell knows.
Would I like it if their relationship cooled down as well? Well, yeah. But I wouldn't consider them less of a friend for maintaining a relationship.
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