girldetective

I can tell you exactly what I do when something hits me so hard I almost fall down, and actually did on one occasion. I stop. Maybe for just a moment or maybe much longer. Its like I absorb it. Then, I learn. I start to think, and research if need be. I am action oriented if the occasion warrants it. While actioneering, I continue to think. That is just what I do. I turn things around, sort of like Rubik's cube or a math puzzle. I just do this until I figure it out. Even if it might not be what someone else figures out, it is my answer. I know this because I begin to feel peaceful or I change for the better or Im happier or someone else is happy or things fall into some sort of place.

The good news is that it always happens, and it continues to get better.

Also, remember our chemicals/hormones change and adjust with various situational stressors.

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Edit: There are certainly times though when I go a little tweaky.

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