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I don't hide money from my wife. Granted, this doesn't mean I'll call and ask if it's ok if I buy something and she doesn't do the same unless it's a big purchase so no, I don't cheat on my wife with it. She's pulled the trick once but I took the stuff back. No it wasn't personal items or anything of the sort. She impulsively bought some stuff for the house that was way overpriced and we didn't need it. I had a refund in about 2 hours.
She'll usually call me and say she's getting this or that, but really the only time I've called her before a purchase is when it's a car or something like that. Even then I'm like hey, I'm about to get this.
I think one problem people have alot of times is not being honest about the specific amount they spent. If the spouse comes home with a few pair of shoes or a new golf club, they'll usually drop the actual price of the item(s) they bought to try and "help" the situation look better. This is pretty stupid. It does nothing but cause problems.. unless of course you have enough money that you never bother to check your account(s); and in that case.. I'm for rent.
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