I don't think it's necessarily intellectual, although a little playful verbal sparring is a good add to the mix. If she loves hearing how much you know about string theory, talk and share your theory.
Think subtle foreplay throughout the day. Knowing glances and soft touches and caresses, brushing against her whenever possible, a lingering good-bye kiss instead of a quick grandpa kiss, reminiscing about very romantic moments you've shared. Call or text her at work, letting her know how much you're dying to (insert phrase here). You're aiming for a slow buildup, so by the time she drives home from work (assumption) she's wet with anticipation and will rip her clothes off when she works in the door.
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We are always more anxious to be distinguished for a talent which we do not possess, than to be praised for the fifteen which we do possess.
Mark Twain
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