Be yourself. Most women love honesty, and it helps to establish a decent connection and is the basis of your relationship. Honesty helps a woman let her guard down, and the guard is usually the thing that gets in people's (men and women's) ways.
After that, it's as simple as learning her individual turn ons and turn offs. This is so case specific that I really don't feel comfortable listing things off because the list would either be way too long or would miss a lot of important stuff.
As for your specific situation, take longer to warm the kettle. Typical foreplay is 5 to 10 minutes. Double that, and tease. Women get hungry just like men, and this can be used to intensify the need.
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