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Originally Posted by ghoastgirl1
I would say break it off now. Enjoy your freshman year without anyone to worry about at home. I broke up with a BF before leaving, best decision of my life. We were headed down different paths and he wasn't included in my college path.
I also met James and we're coming up on 2 years next month. Its a new time in your life, new experiences. The key to making long distance work is communication. If you can't communicate with eachother while you're local, I can't imagine it getting better when you're away.
Just my $.02
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I'd say GG's got it right, but to add:
The girl I was dating for the past few hundred years used to do this. Get distant when she wasn't part of every part of my life.
You need separation. And not necessarily from the relationship, just some space for clarity. You can't buy that stuff, but it's one of the best things on the market.