She might be trying the passive-aggressive way to "get" you to break up with her, so that she doesn't have to do it. If I were you, I would ask her directly if this is the case, and if so, is that what she really wants? If not, then it will open up the discussion to other reasons for her behavior. Just a simple non-accusatory question, in a quiet moment, can get this conversation going...
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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
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