Talk to her and find out why this is. If you've been together for 9 months, you should be able to have a conversation about little stuff like this.
Before you go, just say, "look this is bothering me. We need to talk about this if we're going to try long distance. I need some affection in this relationship. If you can't provide that, then I don't know if we should bother."
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