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Everyone has given you great advice so far.
Everybody needs to have friends and you certainly don't need to ditch yours. But you can't just hang out all day, every day, either.
The only thing I would add to what everyone else has said is to pace yourself. You will burn out if you try to launch into accomplishing everyone of these goals at once. Choose the one that is most important to you NOW and work on it. Chances are, some of the others will fall into your lap in the process.
And give yourself time to just hang-out and be with your friends sometimes.
Balance is key to happiness. There's no sense in accomplishing goals if you're too stressed out and anxious about them to enjoy the time spent getting there.
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Most people go through life dreading they'll have a traumatic experience. Freaks were born with their trauma. They've already passed their test in life. They're aristocrats. - Diane Arbus
PESSIMISM, n. A philosophy forced upon the convictions of the observer by the disheartening prevalence of the optimist with his scarecrow hope and his unsightly smile. - Ambrose Bierce
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