I'm a peripheral member of a local sport-based community. I joined simply to have people to play against, and have no desire to expand my involvement with them. However, most of them view the community as more than just a group of strangers who play together, and it can be difficult for me to stay on the edge. I wish there were a polite way to say "I like you as a teammate or opponent, just not as a friend" I'm slow to join into new communities, because for me, socializing is difficult and usually unpleasant, even with people I like.
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And you believe Bush and the liberals and divorced parents and gays and blacks and the Christian right and fossil fuels and Xbox are all to blame, meanwhile you yourselves create an ad where your kid hits you in the head with a baseball and you don't understand the message that the problem is you.
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