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Have you thought that maybe she doesn't really want to be saved? Not that people can really 'save' a person. But it's extremely difficult to help a person who isn't receptive to it.
If she was that unhappy, she would leave when she saw a way out. In an abusive relationship, it's difficult to break free though. There is a lot of mental manipulation that would cause one to stay.
Only you know why you love her. Only you know the correct choices and paths to take. People here can offer insight, examples, and questions, but you know the situation best.
My advice:
Ultimatums are usually not good, but it seems appropriate in this case. You have to let her know that you won't be around forever. This could go either way, but then at least you will know and will be able to get out of limbo.
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Whatever did happen to your soul?
I heard you sold it
Choose Heaven for the weather and Hell for the company
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