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I was like that in High School. Basically dumped two great girls when I realized they've been with more than 1 guy. The honesty if I was insecure, that she was more experienced and I would compare myself to those guys. Regardless of how good they were, they were better than I could be in my mind.
My last girlfriend was 10 years older than me, she was 35 when we broke up. I never asked her how many guys she's been with, it didn't matter to me. She was clean, and she taught me things in bed that will help me for the rest of my life.
I know you didn't want to get in this discussion... but it's the crux of the problem. You find a "taint" on them if they've been sexually active. If that is truly important to you than no one can tell you differently. I will say, however, that every woman will have some sort of taint if you stick around long enough. It's accepting of them, and their past, which will give you a future.
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"Smite the rocks with the rod of knowledge, and fountains of unstinted wealth will gush forth." - Ashbel Smith as he laid the first cornerstone of the University of Texas
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