silentbob

greetings TFP,

i dont know if this is supposed to be in sexuality, but i couldnt find a more fitting place to put this post. (yes i read the stickies up top :P)

Anyways, I find it hard for me to be completely attached to a girl once I get to know them. I do get physically and emotionally connected, but I can never be 100% to someone.

I dont know if being brought up in a religious family has anything to do with it, but when i find out that a girl has been with X amount of guys, it really turns me off . (i know i know, the whole "number" discussion, lets not go there).

I met this girl, and I really do like her, but I cant seem to give her my 100%. I know I absolutely dont have the right to judge someone by their past, but there is always that thought lingering in the back of my mind.

I talk to this girl daily, and as of now we seem to be "friends." But part of me wants to be more than just friends, yet another part of me just wants to remain friends because of her past. I havent talked to her about it, because I dont think she wants or had the need to tell me about it...

Some history about myself...I've been in a serious relationship with one girl in my life (I am now 22), and after that I've taken a big break from the whole dating scene. I dont sleep around with random girls as I see sex as something more than just another typical thing a bf/gf should be doing.

I guess its just hard for me to see how a girl can be with so many different guys in the past, and have sex with all of them, be in "love", then move on to another guy. I would hate to be just another statistic for her.

Is there something wrong with me?

Thanks

SB