I run into this all the time at work, and on TFP also. Sometimes it's really hard and I don't know if there is a clear answer. Mainly because if you genuinely try to be purely humble, you can't be opinionated - people concentrate on the negative side of things usually, and opinionated is seen as negative. That cancels out the humbleness immediately.
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Off the record, on the q.t., and very hush-hush.
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