Wow, big tangle of events there, and alot of changes...divorces, marriages...no wonder everyone feels cold towards another.
I haven't even met my boyfriend's family yet (will in two weeks, but I digress...), so I don't feel like I can give any real advice to you about this.
All I know is, everyone in this family has to acknowledge that they did their part in neglecting each other, and were extremely rude to you, and start all over again....rehab style. But it almost sounds like an outside party needs to intervene for anything to change, or else, stubborn people will never let go of the past.
I have no idea if what I said makes sense, or even helps, but I felt I had to say something after reading that. *hugs* Hang in there. <3
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