I like a guy to be solid. Hefty or lean, either will do if he is solid. Skinny doesn’t do it for me. Moves well. Taller than me, but since I’m only 5’3” (if I stand really straight) that’s never been a problem. A subtle, dry sense of humor. An intellectual, not a jock. (Not that the two are mutually exclusive, but I’m just not much into sports.) Clean shaven, or with a real beard, but I absolutely HATE that two or three days growth look. My ex husband was physically just perfect, but unfortunately never managed to turn from a kid into an adult. At this point in my life I'm looking for more than just a hunk. Hunks aren't that hard to find.
This kind of reminds me of Sultana’s thread “10 Necessary Qualities in a Guy” from about a year ago.
http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthread.php?t=124795
Lindy