Good advice given here, as usual.
The main thing you have to remember though is that you can't make her leave the other guy. This is her choice alone. You can pressure her, tell her your opinion, offer her help and support during and after, but the bottom line is she has to want to end it and she won't until she's ready for it.
Also, be prepared that she might not stay around with you if/when she makes the decision to leave. Of course, you might stay together forever, but you have to realize that anything is possible when ending a relationship and she may want to be on her own for awhile.
Unfortunately, the situation is in her court. I'd tell her what you said in here, back of for a bit, and see where it goes. Sometimes people need a push or a point of no return to snap them into reality to realize what they really want. Hopefully, it goes the way you want it to.
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