Hey man, don't worry about being a headcase, been there. In my situation, the girl did almost all of what happened to you, except the holiday thing. Turns out, she stopped liking me a week or two earlier, but she didn't want to hurt me because it was close to valentines day. Long story short, heart ripped out day before valentines day. So, since I've had a stigma about it. But anywho. I relied totally on my friends, online and offline. My friends online probably know more about me then any of my real life friends. Like someone said, eventually, anger will set in about what has been done to you, and that's a good sign. Don't be angry with yourself though, from what I've been able to read about your situation you never did anything wrong. Took me quite awhile to figure that out myself in my situation. It doesn't seem like it can be true, but it is.
Advice for you now after about a week is try to go out into a social setting, like a mall, and start trying to enjoy life again.
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