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Originally Posted by botabota
thats because we havent done anything that might require that yet... and i dont want to force her, just waiting until she really accepting me
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If you are doing oral, other things will likely follow soon, ALWAYS have protection. I would recommend she get on the pill now, so when stuff happens it will be in her system already either way, you should ALWAYS, ALWAYS have a condom with you. Not saying you have to wear one for oral, though some people say you should, but you always want to have one for just in case you go further. Sorry if you already heard that lecture and carry one with you.
I am no documented sexpert but I used to do a lot of training and speeches on the topic all over my local area. You will not get her pregnant by taking turns going down on each other. But if you are highly concerned about pregnancy and she refuses to do things because she is scared just have her inject some spermacide or use ensure (spermicide bullet looking thing) right after. THIS IS NOT RECOMMENDED TO PREVENT PREGNANCY FROM VAGINAL INTERCOURSE, for that you must inject it before intercourse and I would still recommend that she be on the pill and you wear a condom-I am a safety girl, heard too many stories.
Good for you for waiting! It nice to know that not everyone hops in the sack on the first date. LOL