botabota

hey guys i have some weird question to ask

My SO and I have been together for quite sometime and there are lots of time that we just fooling around with some oral, anyway she would give me oral and then she would swallow my cum, and occasionally she would kiss me after (french) and then i would give her oral, just now that i thought there could be trace of sperm in her mouth that might have could transfer to my mouth before i give her oral.

I dont know if any of you done that before, i felt just fine, and dont mind my girlfriend doing that.

The thing is that i wonder if the situation could cause pregnancy????

Thank you for your time answering my weird question.

RetroGunslinger

I'm no expert, but...

No.

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SSJTWIZTA

couldnt have said it better.

just dont spit a mouthful into her, and you should be fine

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telekinetic

I third the no.

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Willravel

I'll chime in with a "highly unlikely". In the same way it's highly unlikely I will become president and be an astronaut and win a Grammy for best R&B Album. All at the same time.

hmaxwell

It's not likely that she'll get pregnant. All the same, you are playing with fire. You are correct in assuming that you could be transferring small amounts of semen with your mouth. And yes, there is a chance she could get pregnant.

That being said, it's a small, but definite, risk.

ratbastid

There's a similar risk that an earthquake could suddenly strike and open up a chasm beneath my desk chair and I could plummet to my demise at the center of the earth.

It could happen, but it's not like I'm going to get up and move my chair or anything.

mixedmedia

I think I've read before that the acidity of saliva kills sperm cells. I could be wrong, though...I don't have time this morning to look it up.

I changed the title of this thread to make it more descriptive.

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Tully Mars

I seriously doubt it.

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MrFriendly

Given that vaginal fluids are acidic and kill a lot of sperm, I would say that it's quite unlikely.

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Alta

Plus I am sure that it takes millions of sperm, forcibly ejected near the top to even make it all the way to the egg. So, no.

The_Jazz

The question isn't whether it's a risk - I agree that it is - but whether or not it's actually happened. Google turned up nothing, and none of the pregnancy sites had anything to say about it. My guess is that no one has ever come forward claiming that it happened the way that they have with fingering, etc.

Unless she's snowballing you and you're immediately going down on her, I don't think there's much more chance of this happening than the Sun spontaneously exploding. Both are mathmatically possible. Neither are something to worry about.

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Ilow

So one sperm says to the other "how long until we're in the fallopian tube?" and the other says "beats me, I think we just passed the esophagus." Sorry, couldn't resist.
The answer is that you probably have a better chance of being struck by lightning, and the question, is why isn't she on birth control if you are so worried?

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ratbastid

Well, it can be done much more easily than that. Ejaculating just outside the vaginal opening, for instance, can result in some sperm entering the vagina, and it really honestly does only take one. For that matter, pre-ejaculate contains some sperm, so even withdrawal isn't a workable method of birth control. But the situation the OP describes, it's unlikely in the extreme that any sperm transferred.

botabota

LOL ... no i dont do that

thank you guys for making me feel better

thats because we havent done anything that might require that yet... and i dont want to force her, just waiting until she really accepting me

Shauk

wasn't this thread already covered in hall of fame?

oh, no, that was fingering.

snowy

If you're doing anything at all where sperm is involved, even orally, she should be getting on birth control, even if it's only for your own peace of mind.

That said, no, you won't get her pregnant. The mouth is a hostile environment to sperm. Sperm can only function in an ideal environment; the pH of the mouth is too acidic for sperm to continue living for long.

From AskMen.com's sex advice column, answering this very question:
http://www.askmen.com/love/dzimmer_1...e_answers.html

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Tully Mars

I like the next Q:

My partner and I like to get busy as often as we can. On several occasions after we have intercourse I notice that a creamy fluid comes out of her vagina. Now, I know I haven’t released any of my army men inside her. Should that be something I should worry about?

Sean

Sean,

That creamy fluid is the only reason why your penis is taking up any real estate in her vagina. When a woman is sexually aroused, the walls of her vagina secrete a lubricant; this is what is referred to by the street-savvy youth of today as “getting wet.” Without this lubricant, it would be very difficult for your penis to enter her vagina, and once it did, intercourse would probably be painful and uncomfortable for her.

So there’s no need for you to jump back in horror the next time you’re “getting busy;” your partner doesn’t have an STD or some kind of undiagnosed illness you need to worry about. Vaginal secretion isn’t a contagious disease.

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telekinetic

Shenanigans...if you are so confident that you 'havent done anything that might require that yet' then why did you make this thread?

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Dingledorf89

I would say NO because as someone said earlier the acid in a persons mouth kills most of the semen so I say no

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Milkyway

If you are doing oral, other things will likely follow soon, ALWAYS have protection. I would recommend she get on the pill now, so when stuff happens it will be in her system already either way, you should ALWAYS, ALWAYS have a condom with you. Not saying you have to wear one for oral, though some people say you should, but you always want to have one for just in case you go further. Sorry if you already heard that lecture and carry one with you.

I am no documented sexpert but I used to do a lot of training and speeches on the topic all over my local area. You will not get her pregnant by taking turns going down on each other. But if you are highly concerned about pregnancy and she refuses to do things because she is scared just have her inject some spermacide or use ensure (spermicide bullet looking thing) right after. THIS IS NOT RECOMMENDED TO PREVENT PREGNANCY FROM VAGINAL INTERCOURSE, for that you must inject it before intercourse and I would still recommend that she be on the pill and you wear a condom-I am a safety girl, heard too many stories.

Good for you for waiting! It nice to know that not everyone hops in the sack on the first date. LOL

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blahblah454

Did anyone else laugh so hard at this they almost fell out of the chair?

To answer the OP: you are fine! And enjoy the oral sex... lots of us guys are with women who simply won't do it

MSD

If you're really that concerned, have a swig of wine in between. It'll kill any residual sperm, and pop culture has taught me that wine is romantic.

And although the advice reposted here is sound, I'd also like to resurrect a classic quote "AskMen.com is like goatse, but with words instead of anus."

jewels

I like this better. LMAO!

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dlish

swap the two actions.

lick her out first. she sucks you off after.. you kiss after that.

no stress about pregnancy and no more 'hall of famers'

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botabota

Yea ..lol.. we've been together for 5 months now and we havent have sex yet ... just waiting for her to be ready thats all...

thanks for other post, and i do have condom in hand just in case ...

and yes we are looking at some kind of spermicide that we could use during oral sex...
and she said that she will figure something out with a doctor on her choice of birth control

thanks again

snowy

You don't want to use spermicide during oral sex. In fact, spermicide (while it does kill sperm) is a bad idea in general. Why? It's incredibly irritating. You don't want it anywhere near your mouth or eyes, and it can inflame vaginal tissue. You certainly don't want to accidentally ingest any.

Just get her on birth control. It's far simpler and much less mess--and the peace of mind is worth it.

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Tully Mars

Yeah, I'm no expert but a mouth full of spermicide doesn't sound too appealing.

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Willravel

Using spermicide during oral would be like wearing a seat belt while using your workbench in your garage.

I do suggest spermicidal condoms, though.

Tully Mars

You forgot to add a mouth full of axle grease.

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snowy

Spermicidal condoms will run you into the same problem, though; nonoxynol-9 is highly irritating, even damaging to the tissues of the vagina. The World Health Organization (WHO) has this to say about nonoxynol-9:

You can read more about what WHO has to say about N-9 here: http://www.who.int/reproductive-heal...nonoxynol9.pdf

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botabota

LOOL i wouldnt use spermicide during oral sex ... it sound disgusting D:
but that what i would use as a double protection along with condom if thing if she doesnt want to go on birthcontrol ... but 2 days ago i finally convinced her to go see the doctor for her choice of birth control!!!

its going to be a peace of mind after she get on that

Crack

I knew a guy who's girlfriend's cousin's best friend's doctor's soccer coaches' mom's gardner got his girlfriend pregnant by cuming in her purse.

True story.

I think.

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The_Jazz

No WAY! Wasn't her name Angie? Or Elizabeth? Or Olivia? Something starting with a vowel, right? We must know someone in common, Crack!

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shesus

I believe her name was Erica. She was my friend's, cousin's, uncle's, waitress at the IHOP.

6 degrees of separation going on here.

Oral sex actually slows down sperm in the vagina if you do it before intercourse. If you are trying to conceive avoid oral sex before penetration during ovulation. I read it on a site on the internet about conception so it has to be true.

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Crack

I think you have an angle here...

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