As far as relationships, I'd imagine you have to throw it out in discussion earlier than later. Paula Abdul "Straight Up" style and all that jive. The beginning of relationships these days feel like job interviews, like a meat market where the person is seeing if you have the right initial stuff to be worthwhile to invest in for the long run.
If this issue is a deal breaker for the guy regardless of how intimate you get... it's still a deal breaker and you should save yourself the time, money, and emotions instead of burning yourself on a relationship that'll disappear on you when you finally do lay it all out.
Whatever you do: Don't be deceptive. Makes people insane, especially when dealing with STDs.
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