mixedmedia

I've really never been in the 'dating scene' but from what I've observed rarely is it painful for people at all. Only when love and commitment come into play, but that does not happen with every single person you date. I really don't understand what the guy is so afraid of.

Also, for all the threads I've read here concerning guys and the women that break their hearts, I'd say that the pain ratio is about 50/50.

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