Well if it makes you feel better, which I know it won't, it could be worse. A couple of solutions that mean some work you seem willing to do to do this. Here we go:
If you are worried about a violent or even worrisome situation, bring a guy/girl friend with you from work to help you leave. He is less likely to try to attack you with that variable there.
Financially you might want to approach him after you leave, if he says no, maybe take him to court for it. The worst thing is if you are on all of the papers. Then you can't go the way of the law. Otherwise you might have to cut your losses and chalk it up as a life lesson. That would suck, but that's life.
If he is controlling and attached, I think you're completely right about the two possible situations: anger or depression. At this point do you care if he cries when you leave?
All in all, do what you must. And yes, blk was right, expanding would be good. But that's what I get from this abridged version.
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