My friends and I comfort each other with conversation and good food. With my girlfriends, we buy a few pints of our best buddies--Ben and Jerry--and just talk. With the guys, it's more likely to be fried chicken and other comfort foods. Mostly, though, it's about being there for the person.
And beating someone at a game when they're already down is obviously not recommended. It's just adding fuel to the fire. I would choose activities that don't put you into competition with him right now.
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If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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