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Originally Posted by girldetective
How might one go about this in a subtle, polite way? I mean i wouldnt want to say My boyfriend used to... you know what I mean?
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Either you tell them, or you show them, and there are ways to put it that don't mention the ex. Phrase it thus: "I really like x" or "Could you do y?" Noises are good reinforcement--when it feels good, get louder! Sometimes I put my guy's hands where I want them, without waiting for him to put them there, to give him an idea of where to start, and keep my hands on his to show him what I want.