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Oh, I totally have a preferred body type. I like a guy to be at least 6', as I'm 5'8", and slender. Preferably they're over 6'2" and slender, and fairly broad in the shoulder. When I first started dating my SO, he totally fit this type, but he (and I) gained weight. He's lost a lot of it now, and so he's getting back to that body type. But I don't hold it against him--and that's the key. Just because it's my preference doesn't mean it's what I go with every time, and I'm certainly not going to dismiss a guy because he doesn't fit it. It's not as important to me in terms of long-term compatibility.
Keep in mind that in future relationships you can always teach your new man the tricks you've learned from this one.
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If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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